Sunday, January 31, 2010
Productivity and "I'm a Hoarder"
Anyway, now that I'm done making excuses, let's talk about what I got done today. The house is overwhelmingly bad right now. It looks like a tornado and his cousin went through here! Instead of being overwhelmed, I tried to work on the little things. I picked up the bazillion colored pencils that are scattering the playroom floor. I ran a load of dishes through the dishwasher. I did a load of laundry. I straightened up the papers and wrapping paper trash that was all over the floor of the living room. Cups and plates finally left the living room. It's far from perfect, but it's a start. There is a whole lot to get finished in the coming days and though I didn't make but a miniscule dent in the nastiness that is my house, it did serve to put me in the mindset of cleaning.
I'm a Hoarder
In case you haven't already discovered this, were it not for my husband, I would be a rampant hoarder. I don't know why; it's the way my brain works. I don't WANT to throw away ANYTHING. I hate doing it! I keep papers, clothes, toys, etc. Some of you have mentioned that scaling down the play room would definitely help with the clutter... why have I defended all of the toys? Because it breaks my heart to get rid of anything! Levi just broke his first guitar the other day. I remember when he got it for his 2nd birthday and how happy he was. He opened his presents with scissors that year because, well, he wanted to! We went to Chilis and he got chicken and a giant volcano desert. See what memories are attached to these things?? Well, I didn't want to throw it away, despite the fact that it was broken. But I let my husband do it.
Recently one of those giant balls from walmart got trapped under the recliner and popped. Throw it away, right? Wrong! I wanted to cut a piece off for Levi's scrapbook. I didn't get around to it and hubby said he was going to throw it away if I didn't do it. I hid it in an end table! Why? I don't know... but he found it, I cut off a piece, and he threw the rest away.
Why did I want to keep it? Because a memory was attached to it. Levi picked out that ball one day at Wal Mart when he was about 18 months old. I remember him walking through the whole store with it in his arms. He never let go of it despite the fact that it was bigger than he was!
Anyway, this mindset is part of why my house is so daggone cluttered and gross. I can't throw anything away... it just breaks my heart to do so. I have so much crap that I just can't bear to trash. I know that the road to a clean house includes decluttering and getting rid of things. But sometimes it's very hard... and not just because I don't want to get rid of stuff.
One day I actually did bring up a ton of toys to list on craigslist. My mother-in-law stopped by and said something about all the toys in the living room. I told her that I was going to sell most of them. She said oh no! If you're doing that then I need to buy some of those!
Why? Because SHE'S a mini-hoarder! And she enables my hoarding! I love my mother-in-law, but my husband and I both agree that someday we're going to have a ton to go through and we'll have a lot of questions as to "why on earth is this here??" I don't want my children to have to go through that, so I'm recognizing this part of me and what I could become. I'm nipping it in the bud... or at least trying to!
Hello Again!
I'm off to church now, but I'll post when I get home (for real!). The house is a disaster and I have people coming over on Friday evening. You can see how I transform my house from gross to... well, hopefully not gross! I even have steam cleaning the floors on my list of things to do this week!
So please, if you're reading this, keep checking back. I'll be keeping up with the blog, and thanks for keeping up with me!
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Good Morning!
Before
After
Now a debbie downer would say hey, that still looks like crap! But if you look carefully you'll see a cleaned off stove and that the back counters are cleared. My purse is on there, but it was put away later. Yes, the island still desperately needs de-cluttered, but it's a start. I did 3 loads of dishes in the dishwasher yesterday... 3 LOADS! And then I did another one this morning. That does include dinner dishes and breakfast though.
The reason the kitchen got so bad was because I had two cake orders this weekend. I usually only do one a weekend because I know how stressful it is to do two, but one was for my niece's baptism so I really couldn't turn that down :)
Now on to the playroom. The playroom was a disaster. Here's the before:
To be honest, the playroom never stresses me out or worries me. It's not too difficult to clean as everything has a spot where it's supposed to be. I think that's one reasno why it doesn't get as cleaned as I'd like it to though: I just let it go because I know it's the easiest room to straighten in a hurry! Oh, and you can probably tell how much of a slacker I am by the missing curtain... it's in the chair waiting to be put up!
It's far from perfect, but it's a start!
And the last thing I'm going to show you now is my living room which is, by all means, still a minor disaster. Here's the before though, so you can see that I really did work on it!
- finish straightening downstairs
- clean bathrooms
- put away junk that's between kitchen and living room
- finish putting away CHRISTMAS DECORATIONS! AHHH!!
- clean upstairs loft
Monday, January 18, 2010
I Am A Failure
And I've also completely blown my diet, so there you go... two failures for the price of one!
Today needs to be different and I need to get my act together and get things done. I can't live like this, I can't have my kids living like this, and we all deserve better!
Friday, January 15, 2010
Internetless!
Anyway, I have a four day weekend and intend to get a lot done today! This evening I will be posting a very picture full post with lots of stuff I've been doing the past week.
Today's To-Do:
1. Clean Levi and Luke's bedroom... it is covered in playdough.. everywhere!
2. Clean the bathrooms (all 3 of them.. ugh!)
3. Straighten living room and playroom
4. Finish putting away the Christmas decorations
5. Straighten our bedroom
6. Scrub down the kitchen
And in the non-cleaning related to-do lists, I have a cake order for tomorrow that I need to start and finish up. Cleaning up after this is, of course, is a necessity!
Monday, January 11, 2010
Stupid Camera
Anyway, I did get a lot done today! The toy room is finished, as is the living room. The kitchen is nice and clean and the foyer is partially cleared out. I can't remember what else I had on my to-do list, but I can tell you that I cleaned from the time I posted until dinner time, practically non-stop. So that's very exciting for me :)
Oh, I have a great tip for you all! Here's a great way to keep your refrigerator clean. Make sure it stops working and then store all of your food in the garage where it's nice and cold. lol! We had a repair man over about four weeks ago because it wasn't working right, he said us cleaning the underside did the trick, didn't check anything, and now it doesn't work. They'll be getting a nice phone call as soon as we have money to repair it. Man am I ticked!
Well y'all have a good night and a good tuesday :)
Monday To-Do List
So the good news with that is that I've been getting a lot done and not spending as much time on the computer, which happens to be one of my biggest time sucks. The bad news is that I have not been able to document any of this progress!
Since I have the day off, I'm going to try to get quite a bit done. It's already 1pm here and we haven't done much, but I still have plenty of time to work.
- I've dissasembled the tree room and turned it back into the playroom. However, the toys are everywhere and it is a complete disaster area! My number one goal today is to get it organized and clean
- Tidy up the kitchen. I was good with keeping up with the dishes over the weekend, but junk has piled up on the counters that needs to be put away, especially before I start cooking dinner.
- Clean the foyer. I posted a picture a few days ago and it hasn't gotten any better!
- Spend 20 minutes cleaning off the dressers (this week's weekly project).
- Straighten up the living room, finish unpacking DVDs and books (you'd think we just moved in!)
- Put wall hangings up
I think that's it for now. With playing with the kids and preparing and cleaning up from dinner in there, I think I have my work cut out for me!
Friday, January 8, 2010
What I've Learned in a Week
Cleaning is NOT Difficult
What?!?! This goes against everything I've ever held near and dear to my heart! Cleaning is sooo hard and time consuming... I just want to relax when I get home from work! But in all reality, cleaning is not a big deal. The little things that need done every day are not difficult. It's not hard to clean up in the kitchen while you cook or load the dishwasher after you're finished eating. My kids eat slow. The table is five feet from the dishwasher. I can still be interacting with them and enjoying a good time after I finish eating if I'm loading the dishwasher. There's no reason to NOT do it!
Cleaning Saves Money
This is extremely important as my husband and I are dead broke right now. And why are we dead broke? Because we've been financially irresponsible. I complain that I don't have anything to wear, he sends me to the store to buy new clothes, I go and do it. But in reality, I don't need any new clothes. I have a closet filled with clothing that I just couldn't get to or find. Now that my closet is accessible and my dresser drawers are organized, I can see just how many amazing pieces of clothing I have.
It's also true with my husband. Just the other day he was saying he needed to go buy some new shirts for work, to the tune of roughly $25.00 a piece. When cleaning out the closet, I found at least three nearly brand new work shirts that had been lost over the past few months in the deep, dark, abyss that was our closet.
We also save money on food when the kitchen is clean. A lot of our stupidity debt is from fast food. We'd be home thinking about what to make for dinner and my husband or I would say something along the lines of "hey, let's just get take-out... it's easier than trying to cook in here or making the mess worse!" How stupid and irresponsible!
I expect that this new, clean me will save use quite a few dollars.
It's Common Sense
The things that I am realizing that need to be done or ways to complete household tasks are basically common sensical. Readers have made amazing comments that make me say "oh my gosh... WHYYYYYY didn't I think of that before?!" These little things are really easy, common sensical things that can be incorporated into anyone's daily life and daily routine.
I Love Accountability
It's amazing! Today I've had the least amount of hits on here since I opened this blog, but even so it's still several dozen people. Several dozen people are out there reading this, watching to see if this will be a successful venture or a failure. At the end of the day, I know that I'll be taking pictures and showing the world (or at least a few dozen people), how my home looks. This is where I live, where my children crawl on the floor. I'm through with being embarassed about how my home looks. I'm finished with that.
There is no excuse, there is no reason for my home to be destroyed. Absolutely none. But for today, and for the next few weeks I am sure, the baby steps continue. Is my house spotless? No. It takes more than a week to deep clean a home on just an hour or so a day. Will my house be spotless? It will never be a show home because, let's face it, children make that impossible. But it will be presentable, and it will be clean.
Sorry there are no pictures today (I know, even after I wrote about accountability! lol!). My wireless router is not working properly (any suggestions? It just stopped working yesterday!), so I'm tied to the upstairs internet line and have absolutely no motivation to go downstairs and get the camera to load pictures. But tomorrow, being a saturday, will give me plenty of time to upload pictures and show you what I've been doing these past two days.
Thursday, January 7, 2010
Wednesday Productivity Report/Thursday To-Do List
Wednesday, January 6, 2010
Wednesday To-Do
Yesterday I did end up getting more things finished up after I posted. I cleaned up the kitchen (yay! This is a new record for me!), worked in the closet (I put four piles of my folded clothes away), straightened the living room, and did another load of laundry.
Today I only work a half day and I should be off work by 11:15. Half the time that means 11:30 or 11:45, so we'll see when I really get off. I was supposed to have that orthodontist appointment but our Wage Works cards haven't come to us yet and they won't bill me later for this, so I had to cancel it. So instead I'm getting the emissions done on the car, since the registration will be yanked as of the 8th because emossions were due the 2nd. That's another thing that an unorganized, cluttered house will do to you. We both could have sworn that the emissions were due on the 31st... nope! Good thing they sent a final notice before yanking the registration :)
Anyway, here's the rest of my to-do list:
- Clean up after the tree (My husband says he will be taking it outside when he gets home)
- Straighten toy room, sans tree
- Put away folded clothes (if my husband doesn't)
- Take toys from living room and put in playroom
- Work in the closet for 30 minutes after the boys go to bed
- Do 2 loads of laundry
Well I'm off to finish getting ready for work now! I hope everyone has a very blessed day and that you get TONS of things done around your home!
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
Okay, Wow...
Tuesday To-Do
- Keep the kitchen clean after dinner
- Straighten up the toys before bed
- Wash, dry, fold 2 loads of laundry
- Work on the closet for 20 minutes
This is my first day back to work in two weeks! Wish me luck :)
Monday, January 4, 2010
I Feel Productive!
Here's the finished product. I'm very happy to be able to turn and see a nice, straightened room. Plus the living room was straightened up while the boys slept, so that's another bonus. It really feels good to be able to just sit in a clean house, to work in a clean kitchen, and get up and get dressed in an almost clean closet!
And of course I got a lot of other things done today. I opened the coat closet and saw I couldn't put something away so I straightened that up. Someone on a forum I frequent said her New Year's Resolution is "Do it Now" and I thought of that as I straightened the closet! I also kept the kitchen clean, did a bunch of laundry, and put some more Christmas ornaments away. Overall, I don't feel like a lazy slob today at all :)
Monday To-Do List
- Spend at least 30 minutes cleaning in the closet
- Finish getting the tree down (this will require my husband's help, so I'm not sure if it will happen today or not. This might just be wishful thinking!)
- Take down Christmas decorations
- Put regular wall hangings back up
- Wash, Dry, and Fold at least 3 loads of laundry (husband puts away)
- Clean play room/Christmas tree room
- Decide what toys will stay downstairs and what toys belong in the boy's room
- Make weekly menu
- Make weekly chore list (this is important!!)
- I feel like there should be an even 10 to round out the list... hmm... bathrooms sound good!
Sunday, January 3, 2010
Not a Complete Failure!
Today I woke up (after next to no sleep), got the kids breakfast, got ready for church, and left. We did not get home until close to 1. I sat around for a bit trying to get the kids to sleep. Levi fell asleep at around 1:30 and then Luke and I laid on the couch for the next two and a half hours. I was exhausted! Then at 4 we had to eat dinner and get ready for the Christmas Play. The play went great by the way. Here's a picture of Levi (my oldest), saying his line. He was the "T" in "Christmas".
One problem area that I have in the living room is behind this table. The table is usually covered in crap, like in this picture. Well, much, much, much worse than this picture but I'm not going to make it dirty for a picture. Seriously, I don't know why I'm even posting this picture because it is so, so, so much worse than this on a regular basis. The day after I took this picture it was covered in Andes Candies wrappers, used tissues, bowls, etc. This picture really isn't even worth it, but here you go.
The real problem is behind this table though. It is the only spot that's out of reach from the kiddos in the living room, so things like half filled glasses, soda cans, used tissues, wrappers, etc. get thrown back there along with remotes, cds, dvds, and more. I'm sorry that I don't have a picture of it at its worst... well, nevermind, I'm not because that would be humiliating! What matters is that this is what it looks like now.
My solution for this reoccuring problem is to simply not let it happen. How lame is that? Every night I will check and make sure that nothing is back there. In fact, I won't even put anything down there. If it's only going to take me 30 seconds to pick something up and put it somewhere else, there is NO REASON to throw it down there!
Sunday To-Do
- Straighten the living room
- Finish taking down the Christmas tree
That's all I'm going to put on the list because honestly I don't know what I'm going to get done. My oldest was awake every 15 or so minutes last night crying and screaming about stuff that was actually nothing. Now he's up happy as a clam and I'm exhausted, so who knows what will get done today. The only guarantee is that the kitchen WILL STAY CLEANED.
Like Cassie Bee said in the comments... when you wake up to a clean kitchen, everything is right in the morning. So even though I'm exhausted and dreading what the day has to hold, the kitchen is clean and I can breathe a little easier.
And now we're off to church, the one part of the day that I will actually enjoy :)
Saturday, January 2, 2010
The Good and the Bad
The Laundry Chair
Well, closer to afternoon. We stayed up very late watching some movies (The Proposal was hilarious by the way!), and so we slept in. However, even though I haven't been awake long I did cook breakfast for the kiddos and cleaned up from breakfast. As you all know I hate cleaning, the fact that breakfast is cleaned in the kitchen is huge! It's been said that if you do something long enough it becomes a habit that is near impossible to break. Hopefully this whole cleaning the kitchen thing becomes second nature very soon. I mean really, who leaves disgusting dishes and pans on the counter for days? I don't want to be that person anymore.
Today's To-Do List:
- straighten living room and playroom
- sweep and mop kitchen floor
- finish taking the Christmas tree down
- work for 20 minutes (straight) in the closet
- clean clothes out of the "laundry chair"
Let me briefly describe the laundry chair to you. When we first moved into our beautiful new home (because it really is beautiful and I do love it, which is one reason why the mess has GOT to go!), we bought these amazing chairs at a local store. We got them for a great price. They're soft and they recline and the color matches the decor perfectly.
But what does it matter anyway? These chairs spend 90% of their time covered in clothes! The clothes come out of the dryer and immediately go on the chair. Both my husband and I are guilty of this. A commenter recently said that she could happily live out of the dryer... well, we could live out of this chair (and have for a long time!). Here's a recent picture of the chair in question. Keep in mind that this is after we cleaned everything for a Christmas Eve party, so this is really just one load of laundry and not the typical four or five loads:
We have two of these chairs, though one is in a different room. The other chair boasts of toys, a bunch of junk, and my husband's jacket. By the end of today I will have dated pictures of these chairs completely cleaned off, along with a list of other things that were finished.
See, it's little things, too. In this picture my jacket is sprawled across the chair. My husband's jacket is on the other chair. We have a coat closet ten steps away from where our jackets are. Why are the on the chairs? It's the little things that contribute to the giant mess!
Now I'm off. It's time to get crack-a-lackin!
Friday, January 1, 2010
Baby Steps
Well, how I was. I'm not that person anymore :)
Anyway, today was about baby steps. I did not get done as much as I wanted to get done today. I slept in late with my youngest son, and since my husband was off work we all lounged around quite a bit. I made a fantastic dinner that took over an hour to prepare (I'm a huge fan of 15 minute meals, not hour plus meals). It was delicious, but as you can expect, it absolutely trashed the kitchen.
The kitchen. The kitchen is the bane of my existance. This is how you might have found my kitchen sink on any given day, and this picture is on a relatively CLEAN day where I already did one load of dishes, believe it or not.
I hate cleaning it but I hate it being messy. I want all of my pans and pots to be easily accessible and clean, all the time, but I don't want to organize or clean anything. Something has to give here. Because of this I have instituted a new policy:
No Dish Left Behind
The ideal behind this new policy is that every dish deserves to be clean and in a cabinet where it belongs. Or, rather, that I need to make sure that every dish is clean and put away before I go to bed at night. It works better if I do this before I leave the kitchen after dinner.
So today I cooked, ate, then cleaned. Usually I cook, eat, and then relax because HELLO I just cooked and ate! I deserve to relax!
Wrong!
I've found that it is easier to stay motivated when you're already moving. After you eat, you get up and put your dishes in the sink anyway, right? So why not load the dishwasher (or start washing dishes) right after dinner? It's not a new concept; people have been doing it for ages and for some reason it has only just now started to sink in for me.
The bottom line is that if I say I'm going to do it later, I probably won't do it later. I want to wake up in the morning-every morning-to a clean kitchen. The only way to make sure that happens is to clean it properly every night.
Oh, and before you ask... yes, that dish towel is dirty. It's drying and on it's way to the laundry bin :)